Love Is Eternal...it never ends !!!

If I knew, it's the last time, I can see you

I would have kept you in my eyes forever...

But it's too late...you're out of sight.

If I knew, it's the last time I can hear "I Love You"

I would have told you " I LIVE YOU "

But it's too late to tell you that.

If I knew, it's the last time I can talk to you

I would have opened my heart out 

But it's too late, you're gone

If I knew, it's the last time I can feel you

I would have held you tight in my arms

But it's too late, you're not mine

If ever I could know that it was the last time...

I would have asked the time to stay

But it's too late... !!!

The Only Way to Remove Negativity from Life !!!

 

 

'We are what we think'- That's the power of our thoughts !!

The moment we face any difficulty, our mind gets full of negative ideas and thoughts. These negative thoughts trigger the fear in our minds. A man travelling by public transport will always have a fear of getting his wallet stolen. A mother while seeing off her child will always have a fear of any unforeseen mishap. These inner fears of our minds lead to anxiety and stress. But where do we absorb these negative thoughts from?

For most of us, our day begins with TV, mobiles, newspapers, etc. - all social media platforms ???  We watch and hear everything happening in the world, be it good or bad. Especially, the news and web series that attract us are related to wars, political issues, crime, and all other negative things. Isn't it ? And we keep following them and thinking about them. So, what do you think your thought process would be like ?

Some of our negative thoughts may be the result of our past experiences. But, believe me, life does not always remain same. The things which didn't happen the right way in the past, may not always turn out to be wrong. Have faith !!!

Our mind and our senses are very sensitive and responsive to our surroundings. You won't know when your subconscious mind will absorb that negativity and it will become your lifestyle.

 

 So keep yourself surrounded by good people and good environment.

How many of us start our mornings with positive thoughts? Very few...

The moment we get up, remember God, meditate or just play some bhajans (devotional songs) on the music system and let the positivity dwell in the house and in your mind. If you are not very religious minded then play some peaceful music or motivational talk that can bring good vibes. Wish your family members, share some laughs and happiness with them. and maintain these positive vibrations throughout the day. Don't let the negativity seep in.

Focus on the good things of life and be thankful to God for everything you have. Positivity in life attracts the positive vibrations of the universe towards you. 

Think positive, Stay positive !!!

Negativity can only affect you if you are on the same frequency. VIBRATE HIGHER!!!😉

 

A Desire to Love and to be Loved !!!

 

A desire of my eyes, 

To meet someone's eyes,

Who brings to me a sunshine.

A desire of my hands,

Just to hold someone's hands,

Where my destiny lands.

A desire of my heart,

Just to touch someone's heart,

Who knows that love is art.

It's not a dream as it often breaks,    

Not a sandcastle that a child makes,

It's the desire of a heart that's alone

To devote itself to someone who's unknown.

He'll come one day, I am sure,

As my love for him is really pure. 

The Last Expression...

 

Every being is on his own journey to attain spiritual liberation 'MOKSHA'. Some souls have just begun, others are in the middle of the journey and there are some who are towards the end. To some extent, the vibes that we  receive from people around us depend on the level their souls have reached. During this journey, we find many souls;some we like and some we don't. But all of them touch our lives in some or the other way.

We always want to be surrounded by people we like or love. Though, it is not always possible. Because we don't choose people to stay or leave. The vibrations of our souls does that work for us.

We come across many people in our life, but there are only few with whom we feel connected. And we want them to stay with us forever. Over the time, attachment grows and we are unable to imagine our lives without them. We forget that every soul has his journey and some or the other day, it will move on, leaving us behind. If ever, humans could understand this, the earth would have been a 'Heaven'. But this doesn't happen as we are bound to love and get attached to people. 

Some people move on after making new connections; some leave us to start a new journey; and some attachments get over after losing their meanings. Whatever be the reason, humans are never aware of what's going to happen the very next moment. And, therefore, we can never plan our 'GOODBYES'.

Imagine a situation, where we know that our close acquaintance is going to die the next day. Apart from just being emotional and feeling broken, we can express how much we love them and we care. There are words and feelings unspoken and unexpressed.....we wish we could tell.

In another situation, your love of life abandons you and you are unable to do anything to stop him/her. There were so many things that you wanted to say. You couldn't even tell how incomplete you are without him/her. So many things remain unexpressed and he/she leaves.

It is difficult to let go....but it is all the more difficult when you know someone is about to leave you. The last expressions and words and feelings that you always wanted to share could have stopped them from taking the next move. But, you only wish you could express your sentiments if you'd know this before.

This is only possible if we can keep the pain away which is not possible for us as humans. The pain after knowing that you are losing your loved one soon will never let you open up your heart to them. You will never be able to tell them how much you want them to stay. 

The Last Expressions, therefore, are very different from what we wish to have. So, make your loved ones feel special and important 'Today'. Go and tell them how much you love them. Tell them you can't imagine your life without them and you want to spend every moment with them happily. 

Don't lose any moment of happiness or being with them when they are around !!!

What is in the Name??

 दिल की बातें, दिल ही जाने 

दिल ही समझे, दिल ही माने 

We meet many people in life. Some enter and exit, we don't even realize when they went off. But some people touch our lives in such a way that we never realize how important they become for us. Until the day, they leave us 'cuz no one is here to stay forever. Everyone has his own journey. Is it really important to name or tag every relationship?

Most of the relationships that we have in our life have social acceptance because we can name them. In fact, our society has named them for us. Thanks to all the responsible people!

 But there are some soul connections too. You meet some people and sometimes you feel connected to them. Although you don't know them for long, but there is a feeling of comfort and peace when they are around. You feel that you can be yourself when you are with them. No one can explain the why's and how's of such bonds. But they definitely exist.

I feel that these relationships too have a meaning in our life. These souls are connected since eternity.  They know each other so well. Yes, they are there in our life to learn and teach some lessons...to grow....to evolve. 

And the bonding that these people have can not be named or explained always. It is beyond that Life & Death Chakra. In fact, they themselves don't know the reason why they are together. As humans, shouldn't we learn to understand and accept these relationships? Every human being has a right to live and to decide his own boundaries. Then why people barge in and start pointing out?

These bonds are so pure and selfless - this only can be understood  by the people who have felt this ever in their life. There are no selfish motives, no common goals and no desires to attain. These relationships are made only to fly freely and live fully.

In true sense, they are COMPANIONS (just to name!!!😀😀)

Everyone in this world gets such companions in life but how many of us really could dare to keep them in our life? We immediately start planning to name that relation and you know, it takes away the charm and the purity of this bond. Because with the name....come the responsibilities and expectations, some set social norms. And this takes away the beauty.

Learn to have some free space for yourself...where you can breathe easy! 

Money Matters ???

I have heard many people asking or telling about their preferences. Some of them feel that money is important and others believe that there's nothing more important than relationships. People have lot of arguments and debates on this topic and each side has concrete reasons to prove their belief.  

I am not against any of these category of people but still have a very different opinion over this issue. My only question to these people is - "Do you really think we can compare these two things in our life?"

Can we decide whether we should trust our heart or brain? 'No'

Similarly it is very difficult to fix our preferences regarding money and relationships. Relationships are fulfilled with 'Heart' and Money is completely a 'Mind' game.

Don't ever try to manipulate these two. One should not use his mind in relationships and heart in monetary issues. If money is life then relationships are the reasons to live. I could never keep them in a same bracket. And I feel no one should ever do this. 

Relationships and Money - they always need to co exist in one's life. Although, absence of any one may fade the relevance of second but none of them can overpower the other.

My Difficult Times Never End...Why??

Sometimes it happens

You want to say so many things

But you don't get the words

Sometimes it happens

You know what all you have to say

But you don't have the courage

Then sometimes it happens

You gather all the courage to say what you have to

But what you lack is the time

And sometimes....

You have every single thing you need

Its just the situation that makes you quiet

These 'sometimes' are difficult to face

Its just the destiny which you can blame

And the tears roll down your eyes

There's only one question, "Why its always me?"