Tuesday, August 25, 2020

What is in the Name??

 दिल की बातें, दिल ही जाने 

दिल ही समझे, दिल ही माने 

We meet many people in life. Some enter and exit, we don't even realize when they went off. But some people touch our lives in such a way that we never realize how important they become for us. Until the day, they leave us 'cuz no one is here to stay forever. Everyone has his own journey. Is it really important to name or tag every relationship?

Most of the relationships that we have in our life have social acceptance because we can name them. In fact, our society has named them for us. Thanks to all the responsible people!

 But there are some soul connections too. You meet some people and sometimes you feel connected to them. Although you don't know them for long, but there is a feeling of comfort and peace when they are around. You feel that you can be yourself when you are with them. No one can explain the why's and how's of such bonds. But they definitely exist.

I feel that these relationships too have a meaning in our life. These souls are connected since eternity.  They know each other so well. Yes, they are there in our life to learn and teach some lessons...to grow....to evolve. 

And the bonding that these people have can not be named or explained always. It is beyond that Life & Death Chakra. In fact, they themselves don't know the reason why they are together. As humans, shouldn't we learn to understand and accept these relationships? Every human being has a right to live and to decide his own boundaries. Then why people barge in and start pointing out?

These bonds are so pure and selfless - this only can be understood  by the people who have felt this ever in their life. There are no selfish motives, no common goals and no desires to attain. These relationships are made only to fly freely and live fully.

In true sense, they are COMPANIONS (just to name!!!😀😀)

Everyone in this world gets such companions in life but how many of us really could dare to keep them in our life? We immediately start planning to name that relation and you know, it takes away the charm and the purity of this bond. Because with the name....come the responsibilities and expectations, some set social norms. And this takes away the beauty.

Learn to have some free space for yourself...where you can breathe easy! 

James Frey Quote: “Live and let live, do not judge, take life as it comes  and deal with it, everything will be okay.” (8 wallpapers) - Quotefancy

7 comments:

  1. You can't be more perfect! Some relations don't require naming or tagging. They simply exist and their very existence only is too much special for us! :)

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  2. Beautifully expressed as always ❤❤

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  3. Here again comes conflict of mind and heart.
    Social norms play with our mind and we play with our heart then

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  4. These relations are really a blessing and this only those can understand who hav been through this...and is worthwhile!!

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  5. You expressed this so beautifully. Felt every word ! Waiting for more :)

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  6. You are bang on here. Can relate to it very well!!

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  7. Oh God! This is so relatable. Some relationships do not need the boundaries, something which defines them, they're precious in what they are.. without any meaning accept for the fact that they make us feel elated��

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