How to make your relationships strong !!!

 I have always talked about relationships - how important they are for us. They make us feel happy, secure, loved and alive. Man, being socially attached, can not even imagine his life without people around. But the irony is... these relationships make us crazy. Day and night we struggle to maintain them. In order to do this, we keep telling ourselves, the do's and don'ts. Somewhere in our heart and mind, we develop a stress to keep everyone around us happy and satisfied. And over the years, we keep forgetting about us as an individual. A father keeps doing things that make his kids happy. A wife always tries to please her husband. A daughter always wants to be an apple of her parents' eyes. Isn't it? Where do they remember - who they are and what do they want? In making everyone happy, they somewhere, lose their own happiness. When someone questions a mother, what is her favorite dish? She doesn't remember...!!! Though she can very well tell what her family likes to eat. A husband trying to bring harmony between his parents and his wife forgets to remember that he always loved going on family outings.

Why do we make our lives so complicated??? This is the million dollar question ...! 😀😀

You can not make others happy if you yourself aren’t feeling elated. To please someone, you must be pleased by the other person too. Life is like a mirror. You get what you give. A suppressed son can not become a family support ever...that’s true.

So, the key to healthy relationships with others is to be at peace with yourself. To strengthen your bonds with people around you, you have to be yourself first. If you are happy, energetic and positive, these vibrations will surely touch the people you love. Thereby, making your relationships with them even stronger. 

So, keep yourself pampered always. The world looks exactly the way you perceive it !!!