No...Not...Never

How many of  us know the art of saying ’No’? We come across so many situations in life where people take us for granted. And we, out of courtesy or due to fear of hurting them, don’t even tell them that it’s not ok. They can not take us so casually.

People around us should know our worth. They must understand that we have some feelings too. Even after so many years, I could not learn to stop others from hurting me. 

We always believe that we are very kind and thoughtful. We can’t hurt anyone. But that’s not the truth. Every person has a sensitive nerve. You don’t realize when you cross those limits. And the other person keeps quiet deliberately to avoid a conflict with you.

We face these awkward moments either with people whom we are scared of or we respect them or else if we love them unconditionally. 

I don’t know how many of you can relate to me on this- Even if we try, we are not able to tell others how much it hurts when they  act thoughtlessly.