I love you more than myself

There's a place deep inside me that I show to no one

There are words deep inside my heart that I speak to no one

There are secrets and dreams and thoughts that I share with no one

That place, those words, my dreams and my thoughts belong to someone....

He is everything I dream and everything that love can be

He makes my life more worthwhile, just by little things he do

Divinity is taking care of this love

Till eternity will remain the fragrance of this love

One can read the need of other deep in the eyes

'Cuz it's not in words but in silence where love lies

This bond is growing stronger with time

I wish he is forever mine....

Destiny or Karma?

अपनी  मर्ज़ी से कहाँ अपने सफर के हम हैं

रुख हवाओं का जिधर का है उधर के हम हैं 

These lines from an old ghazal are very close to my heart. I have heard people talking a lot about destiny and karma. There are many articles on these topics floating on internet. But sometimes I question myself who must have discovered this? Whatever is happening with us and with the people around us, can we classify it under these two categories always? "No."

Very nice people who have never done anything wrong in their lives, suffer with diseases, financial losses, etc. Why are they facing all this? If its their 'Destiny', then my question is why such good people are destined to suffer? And if it is their 'Karma', then when did they made such faulty actions? 

Some people also say that these are karmas from their previous lives due to which they suffer. But our holy books advice us to do good deeds only as we get the fruits of our karmas in this life itself

The fact is that no one has the exact answer to all these questions. We start believing whatever suits us as per the situation. And I am no different. I also tend to blame destiny or karma when something goes wrong. Actually, we all do this to shrug off our responsibility for the consequences of our actions. Doing this makes us feel innocent.

I think rather than focussing on these things, we should concentrate on Right Actions at the Right Time. 

Live in your present and plan for your future....thats all we should do!!

No...Not...Never

How many of  us know the art of saying ’No’? We come across so many situations in life where people take us for granted. And we, out of courtesy or due to fear of hurting them, don’t even tell them that it’s not ok. They can not take us so casually.

People around us should know our worth. They must understand that we have some feelings too. Even after so many years, I could not learn to stop others from hurting me. 

We always believe that we are very kind and thoughtful. We can’t hurt anyone. But that’s not the truth. Every person has a sensitive nerve. You don’t realize when you cross those limits. And the other person keeps quiet deliberately to avoid a conflict with you.

We face these awkward moments either with people whom we are scared of or we respect them or else if we love them unconditionally. 

I don’t know how many of you can relate to me on this- Even if we try, we are not able to tell others how much it hurts when they  act thoughtlessly.

That Special Someone....!!!

We often hear people saying - "If you love someone, set him free. If he comes back, he is yours and if he doesn't, he never was". I could never relate to this quote. If you love someone and your souls are connected, you will do anything to keep that relationship strong. What kind of love is it if you don't find yourself in the position  to stop your partner?

I think it is very difficult to find people with whom you are connected not only emotionally but spiritually too. So, when you find such people in your life, just hold on to them. It doesn't matter, this bond has some tag or not. As far as it gets you mental and spiritual peace, its valuable. 

You feel so complete with them as if you can be yourself when they are around. There's no hesitation in sharing your experiences because they will not judge you. They are with you in every thick and thin. They understand you when no one else is understanding.

That doesn't mean that these are 'fairy-tale relations'. These bonds are very special but have their own complications too. They also face ups and downs in their journey. Sometimes, you may have differences with them but reasons may not be deep or internally built. 

Such relationships may not be lifelong. Someday you may find that the person you depend upon so much is stepping back. You try very hard to bring them back but they don't. Because reason this time is internal; this is the time to disconnect, to discord. Souls can not be attached forever. Someday they have to move apart to reach higher levels. Every soul has its own journey. 

This is the time you must say 'Goodbye' and let them go...liberate them and yourself too. Definitely, you will suffer with heartache and trauma. Of course, its not easy but you have to discord to move on.

We must never fall back on anyone forgetting our own individuality, Never keep your eyes closed to any aspect of your life. 

Love yourself, stay happy and beautiful !! 

After all, no one deserves you more than you yourself.

Relationships

Probably, the most sensitive and the most complicated word on this earth - R.E.L.A.T.I.O.N.S.H.I.P.S. We lose our grip on the ones we want to keep forever and on the other side, there are many that stick to us without choice. But in between these two extremes there are some relationships that come to us as a Gift of God. We make a very special bond with them- ETHEREAL BOND. The feeling of special connection with them, the telepathy and a craving to be with them or have them around always, make us so vulnerable that only a thought of losing them drives us crazy. Such relationships come to us in many forms - parents, siblings, friends, special friends, spouses and so on. Each one of us has these strong bonds in our life but many a times, we are too late to realize this and accept these ties. 

When we are connected to someone through soul, we can sense it. Think for a while about some people who came into your life suddenly out of nowhere and became so close to you that you can't even imagine your life without them.

I am sure each one of us has experienced this eternal love. I dedicate my first post to all such people who walk an extra mile to hold on to this Eternal Love💗💗💗💗

                                 DON'T LET THEM GO FROM YOUR LIFE !!!