What is in the Name??

 दिल की बातें, दिल ही जाने 

दिल ही समझे, दिल ही माने 

We meet many people in life. Some enter and exit, we don't even realize when they went off. But some people touch our lives in such a way that we never realize how important they become for us. Until the day, they leave us 'cuz no one is here to stay forever. Everyone has his own journey. Is it really important to name or tag every relationship?

Most of the relationships that we have in our life have social acceptance because we can name them. In fact, our society has named them for us. Thanks to all the responsible people!

 But there are some soul connections too. You meet some people and sometimes you feel connected to them. Although you don't know them for long, but there is a feeling of comfort and peace when they are around. You feel that you can be yourself when you are with them. No one can explain the why's and how's of such bonds. But they definitely exist.

I feel that these relationships too have a meaning in our life. These souls are connected since eternity.  They know each other so well. Yes, they are there in our life to learn and teach some lessons...to grow....to evolve. 

And the bonding that these people have can not be named or explained always. It is beyond that Life & Death Chakra. In fact, they themselves don't know the reason why they are together. As humans, shouldn't we learn to understand and accept these relationships? Every human being has a right to live and to decide his own boundaries. Then why people barge in and start pointing out?

These bonds are so pure and selfless - this only can be understood  by the people who have felt this ever in their life. There are no selfish motives, no common goals and no desires to attain. These relationships are made only to fly freely and live fully.

In true sense, they are COMPANIONS (just to name!!!😀😀)

Everyone in this world gets such companions in life but how many of us really could dare to keep them in our life? We immediately start planning to name that relation and you know, it takes away the charm and the purity of this bond. Because with the name....come the responsibilities and expectations, some set social norms. And this takes away the beauty.

Learn to have some free space for yourself...where you can breathe easy! 

Money Matters ???

I have heard many people asking or telling about their preferences. Some of them feel that money is important and others believe that there's nothing more important than relationships. People have lot of arguments and debates on this topic and each side has concrete reasons to prove their belief.  

I am not against any of these category of people but still have a very different opinion over this issue. My only question to these people is - "Do you really think we can compare these two things in our life?"

Can we decide whether we should trust our heart or brain? 'No'

Similarly it is very difficult to fix our preferences regarding money and relationships. Relationships are fulfilled with 'Heart' and Money is completely a 'Mind' game.

Don't ever try to manipulate these two. One should not use his mind in relationships and heart in monetary issues. If money is life then relationships are the reasons to live. I could never keep them in a same bracket. And I feel no one should ever do this. 

Relationships and Money - they always need to co exist in one's life. Although, absence of any one may fade the relevance of second but none of them can overpower the other.

My Difficult Times Never End...Why??

Sometimes it happens

You want to say so many things

But you don't get the words

Sometimes it happens

You know what all you have to say

But you don't have the courage

Then sometimes it happens

You gather all the courage to say what you have to

But what you lack is the time

And sometimes....

You have every single thing you need

Its just the situation that makes you quiet

These 'sometimes' are difficult to face

Its just the destiny which you can blame

And the tears roll down your eyes

There's only one question, "Why its always me?"